Soft ladies, keep quiet, leave our boys alone. mother of the victim, KP-a

Naira Margaryan, the mother of the fallen soldier, writes:

«I appeal to you, Taguhi Ghazaryan

And you are talking about sensitivity and feelings.

You say you haven’t heard from your father for ten days. It is undoubtedly a difficult test, and no one has the right to belittle it. If you felt 10 days, experienced that pain, feelings, I experienced exactly 9 months. You entered the morgue for 10 days, I for 9 months.

Thank God you found your father alive, but I found the dishonored, decayed relics of my grandfather.

So keep quiet, keep quiet, stop talking about war and pain and feelings.

Be quiet, please. There are mothers who have been looking for their 18-20-year-old sons for six years. Boys who had not yet managed to live, form a family, enter life. They stood up for the defense of the motherland, fought, died, disappeared and were injured for the sake of Artsakh.

And then as soon as your government refused Artsakh, recognized it as part of Azerbaijan, months later the representatives of the same government started asking questions. “And when was Artsakh part of Armenia?” “Why was Artsakh a part of Armenia?”

If Artsakh was not ours, then tell me, what did your father and brother do in Artsakh during the war? What were they fighting for? Who were they fighting against? Why were they risking their lives?

Before the war, you were declaring with all your might. “Artsakh is Armenia, and that’s it.” Then what changed?

What changed in relation to the blood shed by those boys, their sacrifice and the loss of thousands of families?

After the war, we heard statements that the same result could have been achieved without so many victims.

Those words became the second tragedy for thousands of parents.

Even today, many families see with pain how the pictures of the heroes are removed, the memorial corners are removed, and the memories related to Artsakh are erased. It opens their unhealed wounds again and again.

Therefore, before talking about the sensitivity of people, remember those parents who have been living with the pain of losing or waiting for their children every day for six years.

Before the war, you were declaring with all your might. “Artsakh is Armenia, and that’s it.” Then what changed?

SOFT LADY SHUT UP!
SPEAK ABOUT YOURSELF WHAT YOU DID FOR ARTSAKH. YOUR AUTHORITY HAS PUT ARTSAKH ON A STAGE AND RUINED AZERBAIJAN. YOUR AUTHORITY BETRAYED THE BOYS FROM BEHIND.

Therefore, keep quiet. Do not manipulate the name of the heroes and their memory. Leave our boys alone. They gave their lives for the motherland, and their memory should be respected, not used in political words.”

Naira Margaryan wrote earlier. “All day I can’t get out of my head the heartbreaking cry of that soft lady Azh um…

Searching for my father in morgues for 10 days, living the most terrible waiting every day, and then finding him alive is really a terrible pain. And no one has the right to diminish that pain.

But remember one more thing, lady.

There are mothers who did not look for their sons for 10 days…

They searched for months. They have been waiting for years.

And they were not even given a chance to kiss their son’s forehead for the last time.

Their sons were brought in closed coffins wrapped in tricolor.

And the mothers didn’t even know who they were burying for the last time.

And today, six years later, there are still parents waiting for their sons to return. Six years. Not six hours, not six minutes.

SIX YEARS.

For six years, mothers have the same question in their hearts: “Where is my son?”

And you want to talk about pain?

Speak, but first remember those mothers whose pain no one could end. To those mothers who didn’t even have the right to kiss their sons’ cold foreheads.

Don’t put people’s grief into competition. And what’s more, don’t use our boys’ names for your words.

Respect the memory of the victims.

Respect the waiting of the parents of the missing.

Respect those mothers whose hearts are still open after six years.

Leave the boys alone.

Instead of manipulating their memory, at least shut up for once.”

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