Nationalism And Sex

NATIONALISM AND SEX
By Lara Aharonian

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March 7, 2010

I think it is easier to move a mountain in Armenia than talk about
female sexuality.

How can you talk about something that does not exist in the first
place? Yes, women in Armenia are "walking heads" and "working hands,"
with no bodies of their own, no vagina, not even a clitoris (what’s
that?). Pleasure? Female orgasm? Cunnilingus? Yuk! Nope never heard of
it. Is that healthy? Isn’t that a "dirty" thing to do? Should "good"
girls know about this?

We don’t talk about sex in general. We don’t hear about it in the
classrooms since most of the teachers are too embarrassed to cover the
issue-which is, ironically enough, part of the school curriculum. At
university, awareness campaigns on healthy living or "how to protect
yourself during sex" are almost non-existent since you are not supposed
to have sex before marriage in the first place, especially if you are
a girl. So why talk about something that is against the rules of the
society? Better keep everyone in the dark…and well protected!

Protected not from STDs, unwanted pregnancies, or violence, but from
the threat of collapsing the Armenian nation and threatening the
security of the country. Interestingly, that the control focuses on
women’s sexuality.

Oddly enough, it seems that what I do with my own body as a woman-if
I engage in sexual acts or not, when and with whom I decide to sleep
with-is closely linked with the nation’s faith. For that purpose, the
nation’s defenders and perpetuators of Armenian values (the leaders,
authorities, health workers, teachers, priests, fathers and mothers,
brothers and uncles) take the liberty to decide in my place how I
should act and how I should use my own body, so that I don’t harm the
nation’s reputation by thinking about my own pleasure and wellbeing.

One of the first words a child learns is "amot" (shame). So whatever
you do that transgresses the limits of "predefined" and unwritten
laws, the word falls on you like a slap in the face: "Amot eh"(Shame
on you!). A small child runs in the house wearing only underwear.

"Amot eh." Innocently exploring your body while taking a bath
at age four. "Amot eh." Asking questions on anything related to
anatomy and sexuality. "Amot eh." Two people kissing each other in
public. "Amot eh." And the word stays with you-especially if you are
a woman-throughout your life. Even if there is no one around to remind
you out loud, it still resonates in your ears.

During our monthly "My Body, My Right" workshops at the women’s center,
young women talk about all kinds of myths they’ve learned to believe:
Men are more sexual than women. It is OK for men to have extra-marital
affairs since there are things that they can’t do with their "good"
wives and the mothers of their children (like oral sex).

Men can’t control their sexual urges but women can. The important thing
is that men have pleasure during sex; women can live without it, etc.

For a man to cheat on his wife is considered normal and very much
tolerated by the different spheres of our society. As for a woman
cheating on her husband? She is labeled a "slut," "whore," not worthy
of being called an "Armenian woman."

Men can have sex before marriage. It is awkward if they don’t. Young
women who have sex before marriage are pjatsadz (damaged). They thought
of their own sexual pleasure and are not fit to become housewives
or mothers.

Even oral sex is mostly for men. Most of the participants in our
workshops will never consider doing that even with their husbands.

They are taught to believe that it is "dirty," "unhealthy," and
"amot," that only prostitutes can engage in such acts.

Meanwhile, young women are having sex, secretly and dangerously. But
nobody is talking about it openly. Nobody is acknowledging it.

AIDS/HIV is on the rise, as is abortion and several other diseases.

But, hush! The nation is safe!

Lara Aharonian was born in 1972, in Beirut and lived in Montreal where
she studied educational psychology. In 2003, she moved to Armenia
and founded the Women’s Resource Center of Yerevan and its sister
branch in Shushi. She publishes a journal called "Feminist" and has
initiated the Women’s Coalition For Peace in South Caucasus. She
is also one of the co-authors of the book In the (Un)Space and the
co-director of the documentary film Finding Zabel Yesayan.
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Bako Sahakyan: Dear Women, Mothers, Sisters And Daughters, We Are Ve

BAKO SAHAKYAN: DEAR WOMEN, MOTHERS, SISTERS AND DAUGHTERS, WE ARE VERY GRATEFUL TO YOU FOR YOUR KINDNESS, WARMTH AND CARE

/PanARMENIAN.Net/
08.03.2010 13:56 GMT+04:00

/PanARMENIAN.Net/ President of the Republic of Artsakh Bako Sahakyan
congratulated women on International Women’s Day on March 8. "I
cordially congratulate you on the beautiful spring holiday of the
International Women’s day. You deserve to be highly appreciated and
honored. Due to your self-sacrifice, love, wisdom and strength you
have kept bright the fire of family hearth, preserving and developing
national values and traditions, bringing up our growing generation.

You are the symbol of continuity of life and eternity of people.

The women of Artsakh are fated to defend the Motherland on par with
men, build free and independent state, take and active part in all
spheres of life in our Republic. Dear women, mothers, sisters and
daughters, we are endlessly grateful to you for your kindness and
tenderness, warmth and care, for everything you do every day and
every hour. I congratulate you once again and wish you peace, robust
health and prosperity. Be always happy, beautiful and charming,"
Bako Sahakyan said in his congratulatory address in connection with
the March 8 international woman’s day.
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ANKARA: Speaker expects US House to rectify "unacceptable mistake"

Anadolu Agency, Turkey
March 5 2010

Turkish Speaker expects USA’s Congress to rectify "unacceptable mistake"

Rome, 5 March: Turkish Parliament Speaker Mehmet Ali Sahin said
Thursday, "we see that so-called Armenian allegations have corroded
and lost credibility," while commenting on approval of a resolution on
Armenian allegations by the US House of Representatives Committee on
Foreign Affairs.

Sahin, currently on a visit to Rome, said, "parliaments, particularly
contemporary parliaments make laws, they don’t write history.
Unfortunately, US parliament attempted to make history, which is an
unacceptable mistake."

"I also think that world parliaments from now on should not make such
allegations, which lost credibility, be a topic. We also expect and
wish US Parliament to correct this historical mistake soon," Sahin
said.
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Czech Premier to visit Armenia

news.am, Armenia
March 5 2010

Czech Premier to visit Armenia

13:29 / 03/05/2010March 5, RA Foreign Minister Edward Nalbandian met
with Vice-President of the Chamber of Deputies of Czech Republic
Vojtech Filip, RA Foreign Office press service informs NEWS.am.

Armenian-Czech relations develop dynamically recently and for
enhancement of bilateral relations a decision on opening an Armenian
Embassy in Prague was made, Nalbandian said.

The officials also touched upon joint efforts into the further
expansion of Armenian-Czech mutual relations. They made a point of
Czech Premier’s impending visit to Armenia.

Nalbandian and Filip exchanged views on a number of regional issues.

L.A.
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BAKU: Parliament to adopt declaration of protest to U.S. Congress

Trend, Azerbaijan
March 5 2010

Azerbaijani parliament to adopt declaration of protest to U.S. Congress

05.03.2010 18:24
Azerbaijan, Baku, March 5 / Trend News, A. Huseynbala /

Deputy Chairman of the Azerbaijani Parliament offered to respond with
a declaration of protest to the U.S. House of Representatives Foreign
Affairs Committee’s decision on the "Armenian genocide".

"We must create a group and send a declaration of protest to
Congress," Parliament Deputy Chairman Bahar Muradova said at the
meeting today.

According to Muradova, adoption the declaration of protest in the
parliament will be also indicator of Azerbaijani-Turkish solidarity.

Speaker Oktay Asadov supported the offer and stated that the document
will be prepared with the participation of parliament committees.

Samad Seyidov, chairman of the Milli Majlis standing committee on
international relations and inter-parliamentary relations also
stressed importance of preparation and adoption of the declaration of
protest.

The U.S. House Foreign Affairs Committee adopted yesterday with 23 to
22 votes a resolution recognizing the so-called "genocide."
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ACA thanks House Resolution 252 supporters

ACA thanks House Resolution 252 supporters

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11:50 am | March 05, 2010 | Politics

With a vote of 23 to 22, the House Foreign Relations Committee
successfully passed House Resolution 252 (H. Res. 252) pushing the
Resolution in Congress for a final vote yet to be scheduled.

The Armenian Council of America would like to thank the members of
Congress who courageously supported H. Res. 252 with their votes on
March 4. House Resolution 252 calls upon the President to ensure that
the foreign policy of the United States reflects appropriate
understanding and sensitivity concerning issues related to human
rights, ethnic cleansing, and genocide documented in the United States
record relating to the Armenian Genocide.

"On behalf of the ACA I’d like to express my gratitude and applaud the
courageous members of Congress who voted for this crucial bill," said
Sevak Khatchadourian, ACA Executive Board Member. "The majority of the
members voting for the bill believe that human rights and justice
takes precedence over the pressures and monetary contributions of the
Turkish government and lobbyist."

Recently, the Texas branch of the ACA and the Armenian American
community of Texas actively campaigned in urging the Texas Members of
Congress on the Committee to vote for the Resolution. One of the key
votes that determined the favorable outcome of the Resolution was
coincidentally Texas Rep. Green’s vote.

The Armenian and Turkish protocols played another major factor in the
Committee debate. A growing number of Members who voted against H.
Res. 252 continuously stated the Turkish Armenia Protocols and its
historical commission as the primary reasons for voting no. "The
Armenian and Turkish protocols posed as the biggest threat to the
Resolution but we fought that battle with the truth on our side," said
Khatchadourian, "We are hopeful that the legislation will be soon put
on the House floor for a final overdue vote."

Over 137 House Congressional Members have cosponsored this measure,
spearheaded by Representatives Adam Schiff (D-CA), George Radanovich
(R-CA), and Congressional Armenian Caucus Co-Chairs Frank Pallone
(D-NJ) and Mark Kirk (R-IL). A similar measure in the Senate
(S.Res.316) is led by Senators Bob Menendez (D-NJ) and John Ensign
(R-NV) and currently has 13 cosponsors.
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Turkey Will Recognize the Genocide, But Not Today

Turkey Will Recognize the Genocide, But Not Today

16:12 – 05.03.10

Recognition of the Armenian Genocide doesn’t happen in a day or in a
year. The efforts exterted by neither Armenia nor the US nor even
Europe can influence its recognition, said sociologist Lyudmila
Harutyunyan during a press conference today. `Turkey must change,’ she
said.

Coming from that country’s history and political culture, Harutyunyan
noted that Turkey is on a difficult path today.

`That the Genocide will be recognized, I have no doubt whatsoever,
[but] I doubt this will happen today. Turkey today is not ready to
recognize the Genocide. That is clearly evident,’ she said.

At the same time, the sociologist added, decisions by the US Congress
House of Representatives Foreign Affairs Committee are preparing
Turkey for that process.

Tert.am
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With Its Back to the Wall

Qantara.de
March 5 2010

With Its Back to the Wall

Following the latest arrests of high-ranking officers in Turkey,
charged with conspiring to overturn the government, the military is
coming under increasing pressure. The days when the military pulled
the strings seem to finally be over, says Jürgen Gottschlich

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The two arch rivals are squaring off in a battle of wills, yet Prime
Minister Erdogan is against replacing Chief of the General Staff Ilker
Basbug, fearing that his successor would not "guarantee a democratic
ethos."
| "For decades, they’ve observed, bugged and kept files on us. Anyone
whose wife wears a headscarf and who holds conservative opinions came
under suspicion and was registered. But now it’s over. Now we’re in
power and we’re going after them."

When Avni Dogan, a representative of the ruling AK Party, recently
made this statement, party leaders reacted with great alarm. Avni
Dogan was reprimanded. A speaker for the party explained that what the
government undertakes is never motivated by revenge, but rather to
establish democratic standards.

Nevertheless, Dogan’s words probably echoed in the minds of many Turks
last week. Across the country, special police units were underway
apprehending active or pensioned generals and other high-ranking
members of the military.

A nightmare for the military

In a campaign unparalleled in Turkey’s history, 49 high-ranking
officers were arrested, among them nearly the entire General Staff
from 2003 and 2004. But that was only the beginning. While the current
Chief of Staff Ilker Basbug maintained a shocked silence ` he had
evidently not been apprised of the action ` the military men were
brought before the judge one by one as the nation looked on.

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After setting the political tone for decades (the army has perpetrated
four coups against the civil government since 1960), the Turkish
military has been put on the defensive by a wave of arrests and
allegations
| They are all charged with colluding to stage a putsch against
Erdogan’s government. Their plot allegedly included blowing up a
mosque in order to destabilize the populace, and even shooting down a
fighter jet over the Aegean to shift blame onto the Greeks.

On the first days following the arrests a meeting was held between
Chief of the General Staff Basbug, President Abdullah Gül and Prime
Minister Tayyip Erdogan. Basbug gave his assurance that the armed
forces would naturally bow to the judges’ decisions.

As a reward, the three formerly highest-ranking generals were set free
that same evening. But the nightmare is far from over for Turkey’s
military.

On Friday last week a new series of arrests were made. And at the
beginning of this week, Basbug was forced to admit that a previous
putsch plan, which had already been revealed to the public some time
ago, was in fact not a fabrication as he had previously maintained,
but had instead apparently been hatched by members of his own staff.

Connections to the Ergenekon secret alliance

Faced with these developments, the military finds itself with its back
to the wall. Some 50 prominent officers are now in custody following
last week’s arrests. They join additional ex-generals who were already
apprehended in 2007 and 2008 in the course of the so-called Ergenekon
investigation.

Ergenekon is the codename for a secret alliance of members of the
military, bureaucrats, journalists, professors and judges who all
shared the common goal of overthrowing the government of the Islamic
AKP Party.

A host of special prosecutors throughout the country have been busy
since mid-2007 hunting this real or alleged network of conspirators.

Their efforts have involved extensive wiretapping. More than a few
Turkish intellectuals, for example sociologist and columnist Haluk
Sahin, lament that the boundary between potential putschists and
peaceful critics of the government has long since been overstepped. "A
system of intimidation reigns."

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Searching for a way out of the crisis: following his three-hour
meeting with Prime Minister Erdogan and General Basbug, President Gül
called for loyalty to the constitution in the battle over the
military’s planned putsch
| While the country held its breath after the first arrests of high
members of the military, anxiously wondering if tanks would begin
rolling in response, these fears have long since been allayed.
Instead, there is now talk of the possible early retirement of Chief
of the General Staff Ilker Basbug.

Erdogan is apparently against this move, however, because Basbug’s
designated successor would not "offer any guarantee of a democratic
ethos."

Just six months ago, it was inconceivable that a Turkish head of state
would ever dare to simply send the Chief of the General Staff off into
early retirement. And today the situation is such that people would
rather have the acting supreme commander of the military in office
until satisfactory arrangements can be made to replace him.

The beginning of a new era

This spells the end of a 90-year-old institution in the Republic of
Turkey. The days when the military pulled the strings either openly or
behind the scenes are over for good. Even Chief of Staff Basbug admits
that this is so. "The days when the army plotted to overthrow the
government are over", he said last week.

Nevertheless, the mood in the country remains cautious. Except for a
few well-known Islamist commentators, who have greeted the event with
occasional fanfare, people on the streets are none too thrilled about
the triumph over the military.

Spiralling unemployment, fear of job loss and the daily fight against
declining social standing dominate the daily lives of the majority of
Turks, who have long suspected that the power struggles between
Islamists and Kemalists only serve to distract attention from the
country’s real problems.

A different attitude prevails amongst intellectuals, artists, writers
and cultural producers. While some, such as editor-in-chief of
"Taraf", Ahmet Altan, or the successor to Hrant Dink as editorial
director of the Armenian-Turkish newspaper "Agos", Etyen Mahçupyan,
vehemently defend the democratic achievements of the AKP government,
others fear that their country has jumped from the frying pan into the
fire.

Under the sharp eye of the Islamic moral guardians

One of them is Ã-zen Yula, author and script analyst. "I fear for my
life", he said through a speaker for Istanbul’s off theatre "Kumbaraci
50" last week. Ã-zan Yula is the author of piece whose name means:
"Lick It Up, But Don’t Swallow It".

The play was to have its premiere in recent days, but was cancelled
when Yula and the other members of the ensemble received massive
threats. The piece is about an angel who tries to find one good human
being on earth. The angel appears as an impoverished housewife who
supplements her income by acting in porno films.

That sufficed to prompt the Islamist daily paper "Vakit" to launch a
regular hate campaign, demanding that the performance be banned on the
grounds that pious Muslims were appalled at the filthy show.

In reaction, the AKP-led district administration of Beyoglu had the
theatre locked up, under the pretext that fire protection regulations
had not been observed. A prominent television moderator took up the
story and stirred up so much public pressure that the district office
was forced to back-pedal. Nevertheless, fearing for the lives and
limbs of the actors, the theatre’s managers ultimately cancelled the
piece.

The fate of this theatre is symptomatic of a much wider problem. Art
showing naked skin encounters major problems in today’s Turkey. Even
the producers of the country’s most popular television series have had
to come to grips with the new moral climate. The hit soap "AÅ?k-ı
Memnu" (Forbidden Love) has also been licensed to the neighbouring
Arab countries, where it has attained somewhat of a cult status.

"Forbidden Love" on the index

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A thorn in the eye of Islamic guardians of public virtue: "AÅ?k-ı
Memnu" (Forbidden Love), Turkey’s biggest hit television series
| After Islamist clerics in countries including Saudi Arabia demanded
that the show be banned, Turkey is now also considering putting
"Forbidden Love" on the index. The series, which is about a man who
falls in love with his sister-in-law, undermines the country’s family
values, the new Family Minister, Aliye Kavaf, recently criticised.
Since then the RTÃ`K media authority has been looking into censoring
the series.

The cultural battle between a society struggling for its freedom and
increasingly influential religious groups and parties is not limited
to theatre, film and television, though.

Last summer, visitors to a popular seaside bar in Istanbul’s Moda
district were surprised to discover that beer and all other alcoholic
beverages had vanished from the menu overnight. The bar had been
leased by a ferry company, which put a stop to the sale of alcohol.

Angry beer protest

While in other places such prohibitions have been silently accepted,
this move led to an uproar in the Western-oriented city district of
Moda. For weeks, demonstrators strode back and forth before the bar,
beer in hand, and demanded the right to drink alcohol in their free
time in this beautiful setting. As reply, the police arrived and beat
up protesters so many times that eventually no one dared come back.

All the same, Istanbul is still a cesspool of vice in the eyes of many
Islamic zealots. In most Anatolian towns it is impossible to obtain a
liquor license at all anymore. Major cities such as Konya or Kayseri
are practically "dry".

In view of such developments, even longstanding AKP supporters are
growing sceptical. One of them is columnist Mustafa Akyol, who has
always defended the government’s decisions. Two days ago he wrote: "I
think that the political culture of the AKP is tending more and more
toward authoritarianism. A Turkey under the complete domination of the
AKP will therefore not be cheerful, free or democratic."

Jürgen Gottschlich

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Students Confront Reality Of Genocide

STUDENTS CONFRONT REALITY OF GENOCIDE
Rich Hitchens

Canada Western Catholic Reporter
March 4 2010

Holocaust historian labels 20th century the century of genocide

EDMONTON – The act of genocide, targeting a group of people for
deliberate and systematic destruction, was so prevalent in the 20th
century that it has been dubbed the century of genocide.

>From the Armenian Massacres after the First World War and the Holocaust
of the Second World War to the killing fields of Cambodia during the
1970s and the 1994 mass killings in Rwanda, the 21st century was the
bloodiest time in human history.

Rich Hitchens, founder and president of the Canadian Centre for
Genocide Education, told students that 250 million people were killed
in cold blood last century. The number does not reflect soldiers
killed in war. It signifies how many unarmed men, women and children
were killed.

So far, a decade in, the new millennium has been no different. Given
the current events in the Darfur region of Sudan, it seems as though
nothing has been learned from the atrocities of the past.

Hitchens is a Holocaust historian trained in the United States, who
realized that Canada has no Holocaust-themed institutions. Compelled
to do something, he founded the Canadian Centre for Genocide Education.

GENOCIDE EDUCATION "Virtually every state has a Holocaust museum
of some sort. They have summer courses for teachers to take on
the Holocaust. When I came back to Canada I learned that there is
no actual summer course on the Holocaust, let alone on genocide,"
said Hitchens, who lives in London, Ont.

He was the keynote speaker at a March 2 genocide conference, held at
Annunciation Church. At the conference were Grade 9 students from five
of Edmonton Catholic’s international baccalaureate schools: Archbishop
MacDonald, Holy Trinity, St. Joseph, St. Clement and St. Thomas More.

"It’s all about getting these students here to live their lives but
be a little less concerned about their shoes and Saturday night and
their hair, and to recognize that people around the world are living
on less than a dollar a day," said Hitchens, promoting the concept
of global citizenship.

SOCIAL JUSTICE An organizer of the event was Sandi Young, a teacher
from St. Thomas More School, active in social justice for several
years. Young was a part of a 30-teacher contingent that went to Rwanda
in 2009, visiting genocide sites, talking with students and teachers,
and conversing with government officials.

"Social justice has been a focus of ours for three years, and this
definitely fits in," Young said of the genocide conference, which is
aimed at encouraging students to focus less on "I and me" and more on
"we and us."

"We are trying to set a plan of action. What can our students do to
make a difference?" she said.

Hitchens told the students that short of the potentially apocalyptic
consequences of global warming, mass murder by governments eclipses
all other problems facing the world.

"Darfur has been front and centre. That has been unfolding since 2003,
and the response has been identical to the past, some words and not
much else in terms of action from the Western world.

OPEN SORE "Congo remains an open sore in Africa. Chechnya festers
as well. The 20th century was a century of genocide, and it isn’t
looking much better for the 21st century," said Hitchens.

The students watched a one-hour video, The Last Just Man, a documentary
about Lt.-Gen. Romeo Dallaire’s ill-fated peacekeeping mission in
Rwanda. Witnessing genocide in action firsthand, Dallaire pleaded for
reinforcements of 2,000 soldiers to put an end to the killings. The
UN Security Council refused. The result was about a million Tutsi
deaths in 100 days.

"Students are stunned by the international community. The world just
callously looked away. It would be like if you saw a burning building,
with people leaping out and screaming in pain, and all you’re doing
is standing there on the sidewalk watching them. The world was so
grossly negligent," he said.

The faint glimmer of hope in preventing another century of 250 million
genocide victims is the student-driven, anti-genocide movement. Those
young people acknowledge the common bonds that tie humans together.

They possess the attitude that the same sympathy, compassion and
worldwide assistance shown for victims of natural disasters should
be given for victims of human conflict as well.

"We really have to change our priorities. Look at the earthquake in
Haiti, and there was a great outpouring of grief and support from
all over the world, and that was remarkable. It showed the best of
humanity. People should have cared and they did. But we can’t seem
to muster the same response for man-made catastrophes," said Hitchens.

FOSTERING AWARENESS He would like to see the students recognize that
they live in Edmonton, but can still care about the Muslim Africans
in Darfur.

Rwandan genocide survivor Dr. Tharisse Seminega and an anti-genocide
student panel, Stand Calgary, also spoke to the students about their
experiences in fostering awareness and opposing genocide.

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"Security Is The Challenge Of The 21st Century" International Confer

"SECURITY IS THE CHALLENGE OF THE 21ST CENTURY" INTERNATIONAL CONFERENCE HELD IN TBILISI

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2010-03-04

TBILISI, MARCH 4, ARMENPRESS: "Security is the Challenge of the 21st
Century" international conference was held today in Tbilisi during
which global and regional security issues have been discussed. Heads
of world leading news agencies, including the Executive Director of
Armenpress news agency Hrayr Zoryan, political figures, representatives
of international organizations participated in the event.

Vice prime minister of Georgia, State Minister of Re-Integration Temur
Yakobashvili, deputy parliament speaker Gigi Tsereteli, minister on
refugee issue Koba Subeliani presented their own approaches toward
the security issues. Ambassadors of France, Romania to Georgia,
first secretary of the Ukrainian embassy, Georgian experts, heads of
agencies presented reports.

Executive director of "Armenpress" news agency Hrayr Zoryan, referring
to the current challenges of information security, presented the
steps carried out in Armenia in that direction.
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